My housemate has been out of town for the better part of a week and it’s been glorious. Not because I don’t like him or anything like that. I actually like him a lot. Remember that episode of Sex and the City (of course you do) about the “Secret Single Behavior”, it’s kind of like that. There’s just some things that I just can’t get done with other people around and some things I just won’t do at all unless it’s just me in the house. So as Christian and his girlfriend, Brittany boarded that 12pm flight to Panama City- I started to consider all of the things and habits that I reserve for times when I have at least forty-eight hours to myself. Whether it’s a roommate, parents, boyfriend, husband, wife, kids or partner- it’s always nice to have alone time in your personal space.
Ta-Dah! Magical Clean House:
Well, not so magical. In this scenario there were no cartoon woodland creatures to help me out Disney-princess style. In this scenario, I did all the cleaning. Either way, it’s nice to come home to a pristine house- where everything is in it’s place and when you do a little every day- it really makes a difference.
|Tools of the trade.|
Rachel, In Concert:
Being alone means never having to apologize for doing full renditions of Lady Gaga songs for your dogs. When I’m home alone, the whole house is my karaoke stage.
Being the boundaries oriented person that I am, I don’t spend a lot of time roaming around the house half dressed. Many times I’ve heard the argument that underwear are “the same as a bathing suit”- it is not and even then, I wouldn’t really walk around just leisurely in a bathing suit in my living room. However, when I’m home alone, I’m a little more likely to dart to and from different corners of the house in my underwear. Which I consider to be huge progress.
Leftovers: You’re Outta Here!:
My refrigerator and I have an interesting relationship. I’m kind of obsessed with it being organized and I’m also super crazy about expiration dates. Having time off of work and an empty house allows me to really go through and “Tetris” everything. I throw out the leftovers that have been forgotten, wipe everything down and check every. single. expiration date. It’s now organized and glorious. I did the same thing with my pantry.
Projects, Projects, Projects:
Christian’s yearly pilgrimage just happened to take place during a week that I had a lot of time off. I’m a crafty person. I have a cabinet full of spray paints, fabric, glue guns, etc... so it’s not super difficult to get me going on a project and most of the time I don’t have to go to the supply store to buy stuff. I utilized this time to work in my garden, hang some pictures and take on a couple of creative endeavors.
|Last minute project. Using chalkboard spray paint to label some spice jars.|
While I do very well in solitude, I actually prefer having a housemate and being around people. I love to entertain and have fun debates and conversation. While there are things that can drive people bananas, they are all just things that come along with sharing a living space with another person. It’s nice to have somebody around. So Suffice it to say, I will enjoy my leisure time, the house looks awesome- but, I’ll be ready to have some people around the house again.